Do you really believe that ? If you try arguing with some of the very vocal players who don't like it, you might realize why "devs are tyrannical and implement stuff without consulting the community"
take feedback and criticism with a grain of salt with likely many more factors in mind than most people criticizing including practicality concerns; that said, feedback and criticism are essential as they will inevitably make obvious some issues and points of view that may have been overlooked, but what proportion of feedback is that, take a wild guess.
As for balancing gameplay features, as small as the dev & beta teams are, it's often an impossible task without large gameplay samples from a public release; it's not implementing stuff without consulting the community, rather it's actually consulting the community about it for a soon-to-come hotfix.
it's like they don't even beta test anything anymore
Just stop with the constant random negative assumptions when you actually have no idea what the dev team is doing and what their limits are with the time/resources they've got. Chill out, at least on this forum. Even though i'm inactive at the moment i can tell the new DOTF was tested quite a few times in beta and already had numerous fixes prior to the first release, it's obviously understandable that further such tests limited in population won't be NEARLY enough to notice all issues and public testing is needed.